We Need Great Dads - Pastor Johnny Marten
Today, we gathered to honor and encourage fathers, recognizing both the joys and the weighty responsibilities that come with fatherhood. While we celebrated the dads among us, we also acknowledged that not everyone has had a positive experience with their own father. Yet, regardless of our past, we are called to look forward and strive to be great dads—men who bless their children and lead them well.
At the heart of being a great dad is walking in righteousness and integrity. This isn’t something we can achieve on our own; it’s only possible through surrendering to Jesus and allowing His Spirit to shape our lives. Our own efforts at righteousness fall short, but Christ’s righteousness transforms us from the inside out. When we walk in integrity, our children are blessed after us, as Proverbs 20:7 promises.
A recurring theme from the wisdom shared by many in our community is the importance of time. Our children should never have to compete with our work, hobbies, or friends for our attention. The story of “Joey’s dad” reminds us that the choices we make about where we invest our time have lasting consequences. Years down the road, the opportunities we missed to be present with our children can’t be reclaimed.
Great dads are Christ-centered leaders, bringing up their children in the training and instruction of the Lord. This requires patience, consistency, and a willingness to lead by example. Our actions speak louder than our words, and when we fail, we must be honest and explain the reasons behind our guidance. Encouragement is vital—cheering our kids on, recognizing their efforts, and meeting them where they are in their stage of life.
Masculinity, as God designed it, is not about being domineering but about leading, protecting, and loving our families well. We must give our children room to be kids, avoid comparing them to others, and treat them appropriately for their age and maturity. Compassion, honesty, and providing for our families are all part of the calling.
Fatherhood is a heavy responsibility, and at times it can feel overwhelming. But with God’s help, we can make choices that set our children up for blessing and success. If we need to change direction, today is the day to do it. May God give us the strength to be the dads our children need, and may our families and His kingdom be blessed through us.